Bored of 69? Try these new similar sex positions today
If you know a few sex positions, you know that one of the most dividing ones must be 69. You either love it or hate it, as some people state that it's an uncomfortable position that doesn't deliver a lot of rewards. Plus, they say it can be difficult to appreciate and enjoy obtaining pleasure when you have to be focused on giving pleasure to your partner. Yes, it might be a multitasking position, but it has its own perks! To be honest, it's a job worth your appreciation and it should be more celebrated for its originality. Time to relish the fun and playful erotic position, don't you think? After all, who needs perfection? It's all about having a good time. And if you're looking for some alternatives to your classic 69, look no further. We've got you covered!
Let's start with the basics: 69-sex position requires two people (or three) that give and receive oral sex at the same time. This enhances pleasure for each of the people involved simultaneously. It might not sound so simple, but we assure you it's very fun if everyone is enjoying it. Plus, one of the key elements of making 69 unforgettable, is that it's not a regular position. So once you step out of your comfort zone and change your routine, get ready to experience a new level of pleasure and intimacy.
Tips to get the most out of it: all partners should be comfortable! This is imperative, and you need to know there's no rush. You can take your time, after all, it's not a competition or a marathon. And getting into position can be part of the foreplay. Yes, exploring each other's bodies can be fun but it's also ok if you encounter trials and errors -- it's all normal and part of the learning process. The most important thing is to find a technique that works for both of you, where you can find a way to do that is physically relaxing, entertaining to do, and also seductive.
So let's explore some 69 variations, if you're curious!
The classic one
How: Two people align themselves so that each person's mouth is near the other's genitals. One person will lie down on their back while the other one will lie on top of, with their knees perching their partner's head. This position allows each person to give oral sex to the other. In a heteronormative relationship, the woman is the person on top and the man lies on his back.
Recommendation: If you need more comfort, use a pillow.
The inverted 69
How: The only difference between the classic one and the inverted 69 is that the man is on top and the woman lies down.
Perk: If the woman likes to deepthroat, this is a good position. Otherwise, it can be challenging. The man has more control and can go harder and more profound.
The swinging one
How: You will need a sex swing for this position. Here's how it's done> one person lays back in the swing, with the belts around their back, lower butt, and heels. The second person is on top and bends over the person in the swing.
Bonus: Normally, the sex swing positions focus more on vaginal and anal sex. This can be a great occasion to include oral in your swing practices.
The sideways 69
How: Unlike the classic 69, the sideways one requires both partners to lie on their sides, and not one on top of another.
Extra: This is a perfect position if you are usually working too hard to find each other's genitals in a classic 69. Sideways can be ideal for you as it makes it easier to reach your partner's body. Plus, it's less tiring and more relaxing, requiring less work if you were the one sitting on top usually. Now you can relax on your side and get the same level of pleasure.
The erotic toy 69
How: Amp up your classic 69 with a sex gadget! Consider the classic or sideways position, grab your sex toy and use it on your partner, while your partner uses a sex toy on you as well. Think clit toys and penis strokers or whatever you like, but don't forget to use lube.
Perks: While 69 is originally an oral sex position, it doesn't have to always be like that. Because sometimes it can be simply a delight to use erotic gadgets while assuming a mischievous position. Using sex playthings is a less bodily effort which leads to an improved emphasis on your own senses.
The squatting one
How: Rather than hold your mate on top, make them squat over you.
Bonus: This position might demand lower back strength and greater flexibility! If your partner has it, this is a must-try because it's super fun.
The upright 69
How: Instead of being sat horizontally, on a flat surface, you can be sitting up and holding your partner upside down.
Recommendation: You'll need to be strong enough to hold your partner safely and avoid any injuries that might happen!
The penetrative one
How: More than just an oral stimulation, you can amp up your classic 69 by using your fingers or an erotic play to penetrate your partner if they're into it. So besides licking and sucking, you can digitally penetrate your partner if she has a vagina. You can do it with men too, by massaging the prostate.
Perks: With inner stimulation, satisfaction grows for both partners.
The analingus one
How: That's pretty straightforward: you can eat out your partner's ass. This is the perfect foreplay to prepare your partner for penetrative anal sex. Bonus: If you love anal play, try this immediately.
The triangle 69
How: You will need not one but two partners in crime to form a threesome 69 -- and it will be worth it, trust us. This is how it's happening: you lie on your side with your partners in a triangle shape, and each person gives oral to the next partner. So, logically, you give pleasure to one and receive it from another. Exciting!
Extra: This is an inclusive position for all persons involved in the threesome, as no one will be left out to watch two people have sex.